Gimme your #dating insight, men who date women: on an app, if you’d messaged a cool lady, how long could she leave it before replying? What’s an acceptable length of time (if she explains in her message she’s been busy)?
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Connecting with people shouldn’t feel like a battle.
The problem with straight #dating...
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@stuart_cb 
https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/i-volunteer-as-tribute-the-problem-with-straight-dating/
I deleted the first draft of this blog and rewrote the whole thing this afternoon. *That* is how keen I am to build bridges rather than chuck rocks.
Sorry if it's a bit clumsy, but I hope you get what I'm trying to say.
»[…] Der Entwickler der Anwendungen, […], veröffentlichte laut dem Bericht eigentlich #geheim zu haltende Informationen wie Schlüssel für #Program'mierschnittstellen (#API's), #Passwort'er oder #Verschlüsselung'skeys zusammen mit den #Quelltext'en der #Apps. […]«
Echt jetzt, dies geschieht heutzutage noch? .env Files oder gar direkt im #Code setzt mensch keine Passwörter & Co. öffentlich in seiner #Git Distro. Dies betrifft leider sehr viele Menschen.
heise online · Datenleck: 1,5 Millionen private Fotos von Dating-Apps für LGBTQ+ enthüllt
Crush test
Wang Yaya, a 23-year-old university student in Beijing, has spent over 70,000 yuan (about $10,000) to pursue her crush — a character in the mobile game Love and Deepspace. https://www.japantimes.co.jp/life/2025/03/29/digital/dating-games-china-love/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=mastodon #life #digital #videogames #interactive #dating
The Japan Times · 'Better than real life': In China, virtual boyfriends are emotional aids
Left Field – a dating app where your pool is who you cross paths with
App StoreLeft FieldLEFT FIELD: STOP SWIPING, WE DO THE LOOKING FOR YOU.
Tired of endless swiping? Same. Meet Left Field. Left Field works in the background while you live your life and notifies you when you cross paths with someone compatible.
WHY LEFT FIELD?
• Effortless Matching: We do the looking, so you don’t h…
Non-monogamous as happy in their love lives as traditional couples – study
Researchers say findings ‘challenge myth’ about monogamy while also showing no significant gap in sexual satisfaction
The Guardian · Non-monogamous as happy in their love lives as traditional couples – study
Dating App's Impact on Modern Relationships https://chat-to.dev/post?id=VTJERjBhRCtrSzI0SWtKYjRyNHh5UT09 #dating #app #programming #relationship #developers
I run a local singles group on Facebook and have been posting "conversation prompts" every few days to get people chatting.
This is how that's going...
Him:
I'm in security. I'm a consultant.
Me:
OK, well I don't play with anyone who is a cop or works cop-adjacent, like in security companies.
Him:
Umm well actually it's finance security. I'm not a security guard
___
1. You said security, my guy.
2. That's not really any better.
3. Still not interested.
A really bizzare #crime - and maybe something that would have been better dealt with by a #hospital order than a short #prison sentence (and a strong warning not to trust anything mentioned on online #dating sites, everything about this lass was a lie, but she clearly seems to be mentally unwell to go to all this effort of deception)
The Guardian · Staffordshire woman jailed for twice tricking partner into believing she was pregnant
I'm so glad I am not "dating", because this use of spreadsheets seems like something from a dystopia.
My secret to dating in San Francisco is a spreadsheet
#Dating #SanFrancisco #Technology
https://www.sfgate.com/local/article/trick-to-san-francisco-dating-17446896.php
You And I! A song for your sweetheart! Tag your true love! Happy Sunday! #therealbostoncowboy #timothyjames #countrymusic #country #music #love #boston #nashville #singersongwriter #youandi #lovesong #loveher #lovehim #life #dating #spotify #follow #applemusic #meanttobe #georgestrait #fans
Fellow #adhd singles, do you tell your dates about ADHD? If yes? At what point? What are your experiences?
It's official, I hate #dating, ... I went on my last and final date ever today. Don't get me wrong, the guy was really kind, cute and interesting, but I walked home thinking ' I can't do this again', because it feels too much like a job interview, (bleh) I don't want the creation of my interpersonal relationships to feel like this, (unless it's for an actual job)... You know what? just be my friend, the quickest way to my heart is through #friendship, and if it becomes more, cool, if not , also cool. 
Red-hot #dating advice from my Mum which I might actually start using...
"Maybe you should only ever agree to a second date after you've asked the man if he can tell you 3 things he's learnt about you during the evening."
Some of you have been eagerly awaiting part 2 of my test date with Jack. HERE IT IS!
The conclusion: love yourself before you start #dating. You'll know you're ready to #date when you can accept rejection with a shrug and 'your loss!'.
(pls share if you like it!)
https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/love-yourself-test-date-2/
YAY! Someone said their library bought Pass the Salt! https://share.libbyapp.com/title/10584475 #Books #EBooks #EBook #Library #Libraries #Gay #Dating #Disability @bookstodon @reading
share.libbyapp.comPass the SaltFunny, moving, inspiring, and really easy to read. Highly recommended! ***** (Real reader review)Dating is hard. Dating when you’re gay, blind and living with cerebral palsy? That’s a whole new level of challenge.In Pass the Salt, Robert Kingett invites you into his world of online dating in 2010s Chicago - a world filled with unexpected challenges, outrageous encouters, and more than a few colorful characters. As...
AI 'wingmen' bots to write profiles and flirt on dating apps — https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/mar/08/ai-wingmen-bots-to-write-profiles-and-flirt-on-dating-apps
#HackerNews #AI #Dating #Bots #Flirting #Profiles #Wingmen #Tech
The Guardian · AI ‘wingmen’ bots to write profiles and flirt on dating apps