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The latests release of Fedora Workstation adds enhanced video performance, offline speech recognition and text-to-speech (TTS) improvements. It also includes screen time tracking and break reminders, useful for ADHD sufferers and to reduce burnout.

Details: fedoramagazine.org/whats-new-f
Download: fedoraproject.org/workstation/

Fedora Magazine · What's New in Fedora Workstation 42 - Fedora MagazineCheck out some of the notable new features in Fedora Linux 42 Workstation. It's the answer to life, the universe and everything!

I was absolutely exhausted this afternoon after I finished all my tasks around two. I completely passed out on the couch for 2 1/2 hours.

I’m just about to go to bed now. I want to take my nighttime pills & discovered that I hadn’t taken my hormones or #ADHD meds this morning.

so I guess I know why I passed out.

If stories about disruption & stress upset you, stop right now.

So the cats & I have retreated to the front room. George represents my ADHD side, anxious but also wanting to know what’s going on out there. Fred represents my autistic side, happy to retreat to the front room while a team of tradies makes a racket outside.

My neurotypical (SARCASM) partner is doing & getting stuff done all at once after tears of not doing much maintenance. The handyman was going to start yesterday, but put it off until today. (Good Friday! I doubt these guys are getting holiday rates…)

The outdoor furniture has been shifted into the living room, the pot plants and other stuff into the garage, and the raised area of the deck has already been dismantled, prior to levelling it & leaving room for a site for a new heat pump HWS. Power tools have been used. Deck will be resurfaced another day.

Had no idea this was happening today.

After a cry in a small dark pantry, I’m now recovering from initial shock in the front room.

I will retreat to the park soon.

I think partner hired this guy because he reflected partner’s own ADHD. Partner has 3 speeds. Stopped, slow & frantic.

I was okay here, but now they’re on the balcony above where balcony railing needs to be replaced.

Effin hell.

#actuallyautistic @actuallyautistic
#ADHD

I know for some of us ADHDers, self-care can be a challenge.

So I’m sharing that I’m making myself breakfast with protein in it because it helps my days go better. 🥰

Because it’s food with protein (obviously)

But it also means I’m being present/conscious about considering my self as important.

I’m celebrating it for the times it’s hard to do it.

You aren’t alone. 🥰

#adhd #selfcare #neurodivergent #mentalhealth #AuDHD

Cc @actuallyadhd @actuallyautistic

@actuallyautistic Ummmm... Level 2 #Autist with #ADHD over here. I've have the same job for over 20 years and have been married for 16. I even know how to use the bathroom and have written short stories, plays and poems! Oh, and I did receive my refund check from the IRS (damn, I will miss paper checks!).

RFK JR. said today that children with autism will face a lot of "nevers" in their lives, including never holding a job and never going on a date.

"RFK Jr.'s wild claim went further than just saying kids with autism will never have a job or fall in love, as according to him, they won't be able to play sports, write creatively, or use the bathroom unattended either. 'These are kids who will never pay taxes, they'll never hold a job, they'll never play baseball, they'll never write a poem. They'll never go out on a date. Many of them will never use a toilet unassisted,' RFK Jr. said.

'Disgusting' RFK Jr slammed for saying autistic kids 'will never have a job or fall in love'

irishstar.com/news/us-news/dis

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This is true. And while I people very well in specific domains where there is a set structure (which may actually make me a good manager in certain contexts), I definitely don't know how to people well in general.

For one thing, it kinda sucks when my brain:

  1. Likes to forget that people exist (#ADHD object impermanence)
  2. Always assumes that people are angry/disappointed at me (#RSD / #RejectionSensitivityDysphoria)
  3. Does a poor job of picking up on social cues (#SocialBlindness)

Fortunately, I don't have a severe case of most of these, except for the second one, which is pretty awful.

Also, while I don't like harping on "my story" (because so many have gone through so much worse), I did go through a very "Twilight Zone"-esque experience where I found all of my friends to be, well... nazis or political zombies, depending on how you want to look at it. Of course, that was preceded by about half a decade by an experience of abuse and rejection in my personal life which was pretty terrible, so I'm generally a bit f'd-up in the head when it comes to "peopling."

But I'd still like to improve. I don't live in my past. It's not a happy place, and past me isn't someone I have any allegiance to, in terms of spending emotional energy re-living.

I think there's a lot of freedom in that mindset, honestly. I sure as heck spent enough years chained to the hurts of the past. That's no freaking way to live.