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@impactology Why not a door with reason and purpose? No matter how great the sense of fear, shame and guilt are, they are just being. The dialectic transcends that, and even it is nothing if not constituted by the foundation of its concept. Partial intelligibility is comprehensive. The Hashtag of the neglected keys: #SenseImpressions #SenseDelusions #feelings #Trauma #psychology #religion #science #HumanLimits #EmotionalIntelligence #being #philosophy #dialectic #knowledge #TheConcept #Uncensored

I just rediscovered two old posts/threads of mine, that explain pretty well, why I want to go into pedagogy now (I didn't know it back then - too busy working on my depression and hating school):

Content warning: Childhood trauma

climatejustice.social/@PaulaTo

climatejustice.social/@PaulaTo

I want to protect children.
I want to provide them a save environment to thrive and talk about their troubles.
In a perfect school system kids would learn mental hygiene and get therapy before they learn integrals and the uncritical history of wars and power abuse. That would prevent so much domestic abuse, because it would be caught early.
And teaching kids emotional and social competence before teaching them applied capitalism will prevent abuse, division, exploitation and hate in the future.

I want to teach children to be happier than me, less abusive than my stepdad, more empathetic than my mom and more protective of future generations than my teachers were.

That's why I'm studying animal assisted pedagogy and will start studying social pedagogy, trauma pedagogy and environmental pedagogy this fall.

Climate Justice SocialPaulaToThePeople (@PaulaToThePeople@climatejustice.social)Content warning: mh-, childhood trauma, school, long post
#mh#trauma#pedagogy

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"When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time."
Maya Angelou

(1 of 3) Let's talk about #EmotionalIntelligence : It's not just a buzzword; It's key to understanding yourself and your interactions.

Emotional Intelligence is your ability to recognize, understand, and manage your own emotions. It's about being aware, being present, and being mindful in your relationships.

And speaking of relationships, let's dive into some real talk about friendships. It's Friend Friday, and I'm sharing how my connections impact my energy.

First up, the "Broadcaster." You know the type. They constantly blast information, rarely pausing for a breath. It's nice to share, but sometimes, you just want to be seen or to be asked, "How are YOU doing?" instead of just being a witness to their endless monologue. It's about connection, not just transmission.

Grok 3: Elon Musk's xAI chatbot is here

Grok 3 is the latest AI chatbot from Elon Musk’s xAI, offering advanced conversational abilities with context-aware interactions, emotional intelligence, and integration with Musk's X platform. Built on OpenAI's GPT-4 architecture, Grok 3 can engage in fluid, personalized conversations, provide tailored recommendations, and support various industries like customer service, education, healthcare, and content creation.

Its future prospects include deeper personalization, expanded AI integrations, and enhanced emotional support capabilities. With its cutting-edge technology, Grok 3 has the potential to reshape how we interact with AI, making it a versatile and valuable tool in everyday life.

#Grok3, #AIChatbot, #ElonMusk, #xAI, #ArtificialIntelligence, #FutureOfAI, #TechInnovation, #OpenAI, #ChatbotRevolution, #PersonalizedAI, #EmotionalIntelligence, #AIIntegration, #MachineLearning, #NaturalLanguageProcessing, #AIFuture, #SmartConversations, #AIInTech, #NextGenAI, #AIForBusiness, #AIForEducation, #AIFutureProspects, #AIChatbots, #AdvancedAI, #AIApplications, #AIRevolution, #TechTrends

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”Emotional intelligence”, ”Mindfulness training”. Where does one draw the line when these become proxies for corporations to stifle the emotions their workers would be right to feel when being taken advantage of?

Revisiting the original text from 1995 on #emotionalintelligence finds the reasoning behind the thesis being founded on false premises like ’mean-spiritedness’ & completely ignoring developmental psychology & sociological factors.

#mindfulness #corporatism
open.spotify.com/episode/6aq74

SpotifyMerve Emre on emotional intelligence as corporate control (Re-release)ReThinking · Episode

CHARACTERISTICS OF NARCISSISTS

These individuals are characterised by an insatiable need for admiration, a lack of empathy, and a grandiose sense of self-importance.

They would rather impress a stranger than take care of you. They're interested in that validation, attention and adoration from those around them, so they would rather impress a stranger than care for their own family.

They are excessively critical of others, smear campaign masters and prone to condemning other people for the wrong reasons.

They misinterpret your actions and emotions due to lack of #EmotionalIntelligence making it difficult for them to weigh their actions and distinguish between hurtful words or actions.

They only have superficial conversations.

They constantly belittle, demean, slander and put others down to feel superior.

They engage in abusive behaviour(domestic abuse, sexual abuse, child abuse, emotional abuse, mental abuse and so on).

They constantly harass or bully you.

They ostracize you and team up against you.

They are always lying, guilting or gaming you to get their way - manipulating you to get to control or take advantage of you and others to get what they want.

They are drawn to black magic and the occult.

They dont know their behaviour may cause pain to others;
They only know what they want.

They do you dirty and laugh at your pain. No decency, No civility. Like a demon, no compassion and no mercy.

They exhibit wild mood and behaviour swings, and sessions of rage.

Narcissists love criticizing others but they cant handle constructive criticism talkless of destructive criticism, they will lash out at you or even get violent. Talk about having zero self awareness.

To a narcissist, respect is only for them.

The competitiveness of narcissists! Always having to one up you. They are truly mentally and emotionally unstable people.

They are mostly drug or alcohol addicts.

They are two-faced.

They cheat and are not loyal.

They treat people poorly.

They lack regards for others.

You understand and care about their emotions but they dont.

There's always miscommunication, they refuse to listen or communicate effectively.

They dont do favours for you; every action is a transaction. So any favour they've done for you, at some point, they use it against you.

The narcissist is definitely not going to listen to what you are feeling. Narcissists only relate with you based on what they can get from you and when they have succeeded, they move unto their next victim.

They dont care about other people's feelings, needs or concerns, yet expect the opposite from them.

They lack genuine empathy or genuine interest to care about you.

They are only there for you when they want something from you, and when they dont want something from you, they disappear on you.

They cant love you, they can only use you.

They love expending more energy in inducing shame to make you feel worthless than less energy to lift you.

They are very jealous and deeply insecure.

They seek out people who are kind yet vulnerable.

They appear to be very social.

They are addicted to anything that is superficial.

They spill your secrets.

They would leave you behind if something better comes along.

THEY CAN NEVER CHANGE❗

#Trauma #Abuse #SelfAbsorption #SelfCentredness #Selfishness #Jealousy #Envy #Hate #Bigotry #Psychopathy #Narcissism #Narcissists #Sadism #Egoism #Selfishness #Spitefulness #Toxicity #Wars

#Empathy #Compassion #Kindness #Love #Peace
#GenuineConnection #Awareness #Freedom #Children #Parenting #Fatherhood #Motherhood #Family #Marriages #Growth #Change #Life #World