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@dbencom creo que @tirasdenaranja tiene razón en lo que cuenta.

No hace falta hacer un #notallmen

Me refiero a que por desgracia existen muchos abusos por parte de familiares que incluso se tapan por ser familia.

Es algo que rompe vidas de gente cuando les pasa. Y suelen ser diría que siempre hombres.

Desde luego si no se ha tenido gente cercana o se ha vivido en carne propia lo mismo no se empatiza con ese miedo fundado.

Eso creo.

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C'est une nouvelle forme de masculinité fragile les reply-guy (évidemment c'est que des bonhommes) LFI qui chouinent quand tu leur dit que leur cher parti communique tellement comme une patate que même l'église fait mieux qu'eux en ce moment?
J'hallucine, c'est toujours le degré zéro de la remise en question, comme des vrais mecs, on dirait les pires #NotAllMen.
On parle pas du fond là, on parle juste de la forme et de la stratégie de com : Quand on te reproche un truc qui revient plusieurs fois, la dernière des choses à faire c'est de hurler "Non say pas vré d'abord vous êtes justes méchants et jaloux"

We said Black Lives Matter.
You said all lives matter.

We said bodily autonomy
You said your body my choice.

We said trans rights.
You said what is a woman.

We said #MeToo.
You said #NotAllMen.

We said sensible gun control.
We said stop the bullets.
We said kids are dying.
We said schools should not be war zones.
You said thoughts and prayers.

Now you say Tesla protestors are terrorists.
So I'm going to hold your hand while I say this.
All cars matter.
Your car my choice.
What is a car.
#NotAllProtestors
Thoughts and prayers.

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I learned this during #notallmen, when so much was coming out so quickly, that I was able to time how long it took via my own social media posts. It takes me three hours to be any flavor of wrong.

Sometimes longer if it's complex (three hours per item; some items seem like they're one thing but really aren't). But three hours. Edits are no different.

Zero time, no sly digs, no excuses, no "well that's just YOUR opinion," nothing. NOTHING.

Y es que además se ve cómo hay algunos (que sí, que #notallmen) que solo interactuan con otros tipos. Que por su TL no pasa jamás una voz femenina o no binarie.

En fin, que es triste y bastante sospechoso.

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11/ Le procès Pélicot met en lumière la banalité des violeurs, souvent des hommes socialement insérés, et la déresponsabilisation via des réflexes de défense comme #NotAllMen. La lutte contre les violences sexuelles passe par une prise de conscience collective, surtout des hommes, qui ont un rôle crucial à jouer. #ViolencesSexistes #Masculinité

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@Thierry31 @RocknRoll_Papy
Mettons que l'autrice soit une ancienne esclave et que le projet c'est écrire ses mémoires. Qu'éventuellement elle mentionne "pas un maître pour la préface". Ça passe mieux ?
Vous connaissez même pas le projet mais vous avez déjà un avis.
Je vous suggérerais bien un tuto #NotAllMen fait par une super shitposteuse mais je vais pas la mentionner pour pas que vous alliez l'emmerder.
Mais si vous préférez quand c'est dit par des couilles, y'a @htoneki

@Faket @Julie_

On a #Reddit news article discussing how American men have been turning to religion in growing numbers while women have been turning away from it, I made the comment:

"Men want to control women, and are adopting an ideology that morally justifies them doing just that."

And the amount of responses shouting some form of #NotAllMen and openly bigoted anti-trans nonsense has been really amazing. Men are not alright.

Another quickly drawn "Day in the Life of a Top free Activist" webcomic sketch. It's almost like cis male nudists are still, in fact, cis males, incapable of seeing any issue that they can't h themselves personally benefit from. (don't #notallmen at me)

Image: extremely crude illustration showing nipples

Guy from “not all men” brigade asks me how he can be a better ally.

Me: “If you see a woman being harmed - speak up. Stand up. Help her.”

Him: “No that might not end well for me.”

It NEVER ends well for us. We don’t get a “choice” to walk away.

If you’re going to CHOOSE silence in real life - if you’re turning away when you know someone is being hurt - the bare minimum you can do is not inject yourself into conversations to yell over us.

You want to be silent - be silent. And consider how you’re proving our point.
#misogyny #patriarchy #discrimination #NotAllMen #notallmenbutenoughofthem #giselepelicot #mercigisele #rapeculture

Me: it pisses me off so much that I can't even post CARTOON FEMALE NIPPLES without the post getting banned as "sexually explicit nudity," while every mainstream social media platform is chock full of "people who look male" posting their whole-ass chests work impunity 🤬🤬🤬
Men: hey, I get posts banned a lot too!!
Me: are they fully nude or just topless?
Men: fully nude

Jee I sure wish men would stop equating female nipples with their penises. (don't #notallmen at me)

'a male musician and influencer, Waxx, added his own criticism, telling the #NotAllMen hashtag users to "shut up once and for all. It's not about you, it's about us. Men kill. Men attack. Period."

A good long read on the reverberations of the #Pelicot case in France and the changes the 'shame swap sides' is causing:
bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cd75v8
#GiselePelicot

BBC NewsGisèle Pelicot: How one woman shook attitudes to rape in FranceThe verdicts aren't yet in - but the trial has already started changing the conversations around consent in the country and beyond